Ticked off - or super keen?

When you hear someone say, 'Hey, I've invited so and so for dinner tonight.' What is your instant reaction - 'woooo' or 'aaagghhhh'?

Some people are so called by God to show hospitality to others, it is something they love to do. While for others it is almost terrifying - stress of cleaning and cooking and possible judgement and .... So, how do you know if this is a gift you have - or should have?